Everyone thinks. It is our nature to do so. However, if we
leave our thinking to itself, it often becomes biased, distorted or prejudiced.
You can imagine how that can lead to many problems in our lives. Of course, the
mind doesn’t just think, it feels and wants too. What is the connection? Our
thinking shapes and determines how we feel and what we want. When we think
well, we are motivated to do things that make sense and motivated to act in
ways that help rather than harm ourselves and others.
Though thinking, feeling and wanting are equally important,
it is only through thinking that we take command of our minds. It is through
thinking that we can figure out what is going wrong with our thinking. This
type of thinking about our thinking is called metacognition. It is through
thinking that we figure out how to deal with destructive emotions.
The Mind’s 3 Distinctive Functions
Thinking – this part of the mind figures things out. It makes
sense of life’s events. It creates the ideas that help us figure out
situations, relationships and problems. It continually tells us: this is what
is going on. This is what is happening. Notice this and that.
Feelings – are created by thinking. Feelings continually tell
us: this is how I am feeling about what is happening in my life.
Our desires – allocate energy to action, in keeping with what
we define as desirable and possible. It continually tells us – this is worth
getting; go for it! Or This is not worth getting; don’t bother.
Essential idea: Our mind is continually communicating 3 kinds
of things to us:
1. What is going on in life
2. Feelings (positive and negative) about these
events
3. Things to pursue – where to put your energy
(based on 1 and 2)
If your thinking controls
your emotions and decisions, the big question is whether you control your
thinking?
When we look at the 3
main kinds of thinkers, we see that there is only one who truly has control of
her emotions.
There are Three Main Kinds of Thinkers
1. The
Naїve:
The person who doesn’t care about, or isn’t aware of, his or her
thinking
2. The
Selfish Critical Thinker: The person who
is good at thinking, but unfair to others
3. The
Fairminded Critical Thinker: The person
who is not only good at thinking, but also fair to others.
Each of us may sometimes be a naїve
thinker, sometimes a selfish critical thinker, and sometimes a fairminded
critical thinker.
We can create a better world when we work
together to be fair to everyone. We will
never be perfect, but we can always improve our thinking.
This section of the blog will help you develop as a fairminded thinker.
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